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How to pitch the media for an adult brand
Reporters answer a small share of the pitches they receive, and adult brands start with extra suspicion. A pitch that gets a reply is short, specific, sent to one person, and honest about what it is.
The odds, honestly
Most pitches go unanswered. The PR Pitch Response Rate Study 2026, from EPR Research and 5W, pulled together the main datasets on how journalists handle pitches. In behavioral data from Propel covering about 400,000 pitches, reporters opened roughly 46% and replied to 3.43%, about one in thirty. The same review found short pitches drew about four times the response of long ones.
An adult brand starts further back, because reporters expect a sales pitch. The answer is not louder email. It is a pitch so specific and useful that the category stops mattering.
Write the subject line last
The subject line is the pitch in one line. Write it after the email, from the single most interesting fact inside it. Good subject lines carry a number, a place or a change: "Survey: 1 in 3 US daters now verify matches before meeting". Weak ones announce the brand: "Exciting news from our company".
Keep anything explicit out of the subject line entirely. It can trip spam filters, and it tells the reporter the rest of the email will not be usable.
Keep it short, send it early
Guidance collected in the same 2026 review points the same way: pitch one person by email, keep it under 300 words and ideally much shorter, send it before noon in the reporter's time zone, and, where you can, on a Tuesday. In Muck Rack's 2026 survey, most journalists said they prefer pitches under 200 words.
Short does not mean vague. The facts, the person who can speak and the one question you are asking should all fit on a phone screen.
Exclusives and embargoes
- An exclusive gives one outlet the story first and alone. Offer it to the reporter whose readers it suits best, and say plainly that it is exclusive.
- An embargo shares the story with several reporters ahead of time, on the understanding that nobody publishes before an agreed date and time.
Neither is binding unless the reporter agrees before seeing the details. Ask "Can I offer you this under embargo until Tuesday 9 a.m. Eastern?" and wait for a yes.
One follow-up, with something new
Follow-up tolerance is low. According to the same review, Cision's 2025 survey found 62% of journalists say only one follow-up is appropriate, and among US reporters 24% said never follow up at all. Wait a few days, then send one short note that adds something: a new data point, a photo, a time the spokesperson is free. Then stop.
After the answer
If a reporter says yes, make their job easy: fast replies, accurate facts, and a spokesperson who turns up prepared, as covered in expert commentary. If they say no, thank them and leave it. Keep a record of who covered what, so the next pitch lands with someone who already knows you.
An annotated example of a full pitch is on our media outreach page, and choosing the story in the first place is covered in story angles.
Subject lines, before and after
| Before | After (illustrative) |
|---|---|
| Exciting news from our brand | Survey: 4 in 10 adults never discuss sexual health with partners |
| Partnership opportunity | Sex educator available on new age-verification law |
| Press release: new product launch | Lingerie brand drops size limits after customer data |
Pitching by outlet type
News desks want facts, timing and access; features editors want people and context; trade reporters want business detail; podcast producers want a guest who can talk for forty minutes. Adapt the pitch to each, even with the same story. A one-size pitch fits none of them well.
Podcasts and newsletters
Podcasts and newsletters often cover adult topics more openly than mainstream outlets. Pitch podcast producers with a guest, three topics and a short bio; pitch newsletter writers with a single useful fact or resource for their readers. Listen to or read several episodes or issues first, and refer to them.
Corrections and follow-through
If an article gets a fact wrong, ask politely for a correction, with evidence, and accept that opinions are the reporter's to keep. If the coverage is good, thank the reporter, share it, and offer help on future stories. How you handle both builds the reputation that brings the next call. Story angles are explored in adult PR story angles.
Pitching around the news cycle
Avoid pitching on days dominated by major news, and pitch evergreen stories early in the week. For reaction comment, send a short note as soon as a relevant story breaks. Remember time zones: a pitch landing at dawn in California may already be stale in New York.
What reporters do not need
- Attachments they did not ask for.
- Explicit images or language.
- Pitches copied to dozens of colleagues.
- Calls to ask whether they received the email.
- Pressure to publish quickly or favorably.
A pitching routine
Each week: read what target reporters published, note new angles, send a small number of tailored pitches and one follow-up each, and log the outcomes. Each quarter: review which reporters and angles worked and refresh the list. Steady routine beats occasional bursts. Digital PR as a whole is covered in the digital PR guide.
Pitching trade press
Trade reporters covering retail, wellness or hospitality want business detail: numbers, partners, distribution, hiring and strategy. They are often more open to adult-category business stories than consumer outlets. Pitch them with facts and access to a senior person, and expect technical follow-up questions.
Pitching with data
A pitch built on data should lead with the single most surprising finding, state the sample and method in one line, and offer the full tables. Do not attach large files; link to them or send on request. Data-led pitching is covered in data-led PR.
Pitching about policy
When a policy story breaks, keep the pitch to a few lines: who is available, what they can explain, and when.
Pitching a founder story
Founder profiles work when the founder has a genuinely interesting path, a clear view on the industry and willingness to talk openly within agreed limits. Pitch the person and the wider theme their story illustrates, such as women founding companies in a stigmatized category, rather than the brand. Offer an interview and recent, safe-for-work photos.
Pitching visuals
Offer safe-for-work images on request: product shots, premises and people. Never send explicit material, even to outlets that cover adult topics. Story ideas are in adult PR story angles, removal of harmful results in brand search reputation, and the outreach service on media outreach.
In short
Write the email first and the subject line last, keep it short, pitch one person at a time, follow up once with something new, adapt to each outlet type, and keep a routine. Treat every reporter's time as valuable.
Background sources
Original publishers of the facts in this guide; worth a look before any decision.
On the record: questions
Put the key facts in the email and link to the release on your site. Some reporters are wary of attachments from unknown senders.
An exclusive offers one outlet the story first and alone. An embargo shares the story with several reporters in advance, on the understanding that nobody publishes before an agreed time. Both only work if they are agreed before you send the details.
Thank them and ask nothing further. A polite no today is often the start of a yes on a better story later.